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Okay so the deal is Kiel and I wanted to get married this summer, ya know just legally… and then prepare an actual ceremony in two years on the same date have two friends there as witnesses. Simple enough right? Well my dad brought up the idea of getting married by a minister,instead of a court…

Hey Boo! Well damn! A lot has changed since I last spoke to you. lolol

Go with your gut. Seriously, if you feel in the pit of your stomach that this isn’t the way you want to get married, tell your family, tell Kiel, Tell someone! I know that’s hard, but I don’t want you to have some resentment about it down the line.

At the end of the day, it’s about you and Kiel. Period. If you want it simple, do it in a simple way. Your friends and fam will understand.

GOOD LUCK! And I wanna see pictures damnit! lol 

Hehe my dad said the same thing, you’re right. But like how do I go in reverse? What do I do with this gown? Mind you I got it for 100 bucks but still lol it was beautiful and my mom practically told me it’d break my grandma’s heart if she can’t come because the date is her birthday. UGH so much pressure, but you and my dad said the same thing that I don’t want to regret anything and that it’s about Kiel and I. Le sigh, we’re both conflicted though. I just wish it hadn’t gotten to this point, ya know? It crept up out of nowhere.

The dress? I’m pretty sure you can’t return it. lol I got my wedding dress from David’s bridal and before they took my card they said, “this is non refundable, are you sure you want to say yes to the dress?” HAHA! So sell it online?

Grandma will be hurt for a short time and will finally understand your point of view. Seriously  Maybe you need to talk with her personally. Remember it’s about you and him.

I understand that you wish it didn’t have to come to this, but woulda shoulda coulda is pointless now. You two have to decide and decide quickly. Go with your gut babe. Your dad is 100% right.

I got it from David’s Bridal too! I was told nothing about a non refundable dress lol, I had to check on the receipt. Okay I’m gonna take the next few days to think it over, I just want everyone to stop making plans for me, I understand they’re excited but this is how we want to get married. This +finals is making wanna tear my hair out. And thanks Sarah you literally always give me amazing advice lol

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proseandgrace:

Okay so the deal is Kiel and I wanted to get married this summer, ya know just legally… and then prepare an actual ceremony in two years on the same date have two friends there as witnesses. Simple enough right? Well my dad brought up the idea of getting married by a minister,instead of a court…

Hey Boo! Well damn! A lot has changed since I last spoke to you. lolol

Go with your gut. Seriously, if you feel in the pit of your stomach that this isn’t the way you want to get married, tell your family, tell Kiel, Tell someone! I know that’s hard, but I don’t want you to have some resentment about it down the line.

At the end of the day, it’s about you and Kiel. Period. If you want it simple, do it in a simple way. Your friends and fam will understand.

GOOD LUCK! And I wanna see pictures damnit! lol 

Hehe my dad said the same thing, you’re right. But like how do I go in reverse? What do I do with this gown? Mind you I got it for 100 bucks but still lol it was beautiful and my mom practically told me it’d break my grandma’s heart if she can’t come because the date is her birthday. UGH so much pressure, but you and my dad said the same thing that I don’t want to regret anything and that it’s about Kiel and I. Le sigh, we’re both conflicted though. I just wish it hadn’t gotten to this point, ya know? It crept up out of nowhere.

Okay so the deal is Kiel and I wanted to get married this summer, ya know just legally… and then prepare an actual ceremony in two years on the same date have two friends there as witnesses. Simple enough right? Well my dad brought up the idea of getting married by a minister,instead of a court officiant I suppose, and Kiel and I were all for that. So this is where it gets complicated, his parents decided they wanted to throw us a reception. I thought hey that’s really sweet of them cool. But slowly but surely its turning into a wedding. I can’t ask family members to be at the reception and have them not want to come to the church right? That’d be totally rude so I said hey immediate family there is fine. Slowly but surely aunties and uncles are being invited by my fiance’s side and our parents are making this into a legitimate wedding. Went to davids bridal to get a simple dress and came out with a simple gown. And now there’s an actual guest list and to keep it down we cant invite friends. I wanted to reel it in but now its at the point where it’d hurt everyones feelings. I really just want to exchange my dress and get married by the pastor in the courthouse that’s our ideal marriage ceremony. I didn’t want to throw a wedding because my big family and friends cant be there, I mean my best friend who’s overseas was suppose to be my matron of honor I don’t want to do all of this without her.God idk how this got so outta hand but I feel like my day is no longer how I wanted it. I know that was a lot but i’d really loooove some advice.

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Not only did I reblog this from a genuinely beautiful individual inside and out but she is one who is filled with aspirations and a caring heart.

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GET IGNORED SO MUCH BITCHES CALL ME TERMS AND CONDITIONS

at least you get accepted no matter what

that’s the most uplifting thing i’ve seen all day 

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gentle-insomnia:

THIS WAS MADE BY EZRA KOENIG’S SISTER what a greta family :——)

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i actually really love it when someone remembers small details and quirks about me or addresses me by my name at unexpected times like at the end of a sentence and i don’t know why but i just really, really do.

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It’s so girly and totally not what I was looking for but man I tried it on and fell in love. I can’t believe it, despite all the stress of trying to make this wedding not a wedding I must say I liked picking out a dress. Stoked!

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Molly Ringwald was supposed to dance alone but she was too embarrassed so John Hughes made everybody dance

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